If you don’t watch porn, can you raise your hand? Come on, for sure, you have a bookmarks folder dedicated to your favorite porn sites, just in case your lady is not available for some action. Because of too much porn, you can’t help but think – can your girl do what porn stars do?
The answer is yes. In fact, you can make her as your personal porn star, sans the production crew and other people watching. The key here is communication.
Believe it or not, women want to be treated like porn stars or prostitutes, too. It’s just that they are scared of what you might think of them or if you will judge them for their kinky preferences in bed.
So, how can you go about it? Make a sex tape, of course. However, it’s not as simple as setting up your camera in video mode and recording the act. You need to do the following to make a successful homemade porn movie and be able to bring out the porn star mode in your lady.
1. Talk About It
This is the first step in everything you do with your lady, both in and out of the sheets. Keep in mind that keeping the communication lines open and discussing together what to do and not do in bed can make or break the success of your porn movie – and your relationship, as well.
Therefore, ask her first if she’s open to the idea of making a sex video. Discuss how you want to go with the film – location, your outfits, the roles you are about to play, the positions you will do, how the video will be captured and even what to do with the recorded movie after.
By laying down the ground rules, it will be easier for you to do the film and make sex even more comfortable. After all, the ultimate goal here is to have fun. And if she won’t agree, ask her if it’s okay to just set up the camera and pretend you are filming – even if you’re not.
2. Get Your Lady In The Mood
So, she finally agreed to “act” for you in front of the camera. That’s the first step. Now, it’s time to get her in the mood – and it’s more than just getting her drunk dude. You’ve seen it in porn movies.
The guy teases the girl, so she will agree to have sex with him. Then he’ll do all sorts of stuff to make her wet down there.
Do the same. Keep in mind that the camera is not part of the foreplay. Therefore, do your part in getting her in the mood. The more turned on she is, the more she will be comfortable in front of the camera. You don’t have to do anything fancy with this. Just make her feel at ease by telling her how hot she looks, or how the red lacy lingerie looks good on her, or how much she is turning you on.
Just shower her with sexy, but genuine compliments, and you will surely get her in the mood. Don’t go overboard on this one, since women are smart individuals. They know if you’re being real or doing this for the sake of getting her in the mood, which is not working actually.
3. Get The Right Equipment Ready
Now that you both agreed to make your own film, you also need to get the right tools ready. By tools, this means having a camera on hand, lightweight is more preferable so it is easier to move around. There is no need for expensive, studio-quality camera since this won’t be distributed, right? You can also have a tripod, so you can concentrate more on having sex instead of worrying where to put the camera. Plus, you can have angles that are more appealing, too.
Lighting also plays an important role when making a sex video. Natural light is the best form of lighting in making your homemade sex video.
If you are planning to do this at night, then warm, incandescent lights can do the trick. It can even hide blemishes, cellulite and whatever flaws your girl doesn’t want you to see.
Candles can be a good alternative too, though be careful not to knock them over – put them where they won’t start a fire. All you need is to have to call 911 while you scramble to find your clothes in the dark. It is also important to set the mood inside the room or wherever you plan to create your own movie. Change your sheets to a clean ones, clean up the clutter, bring out the scented candles and get the champagne ready to help you both take the edge off and release any feelings of nervousness.
You might want to clean up, too. It won’t hurt to do a little manscaping and take a shower before shooting time. She may be the girl you’ve been dating for the past few years, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have to clean up for her anymore. In terms of angles, the best angle is to shoot it from below, looking up. This creates an illusion of a flat stomach while making her butt rounder and boobies look bouncier. But if you’re recording the oral action, then top-down is the best angle.
4. Execute The Positions
Remember tip number one, where you needed to lay down the ground rules? It’s time to execute that plan. This is why it is important to choose your positions wisely.
Believe it or not, there are certain positions in bed, regardless of how exciting it looks, that doesn’t look good on camera. Also, this is not the time to play circus in bed, especially if it’s the first time you will record a sex video.
Therefore, stick to positions that look good on camera. This includes cowgirl position, open spoon and dog style. It may look simple and common but the best positions are the ones where you are behind her and she faces the camera.
Stay away from complicated positions that could break her bones, such as pile driver. You’re not going to enjoy it anyway. In other words, go for positions that elongate her body and make her look slimmer and taller. She’ll even love how it looks, too.
5. Make It About Her
You will notice that most porn videos made is focused on women. This is because the entire porn industry is catering to horny men like you who are looking for some action, but don’t want to resort to prostitutes.
In making your own movies, make sure to focus on her, her needs, and what makes her look good on camera.
However, this does not mean you won’t have your three minutes of fame, too. Even if it’s all about her, make sure that you are also recognizable and visible in the shot. You need to be seen too in most part of the scenes since this is her sort of “assurance” that you won’t pass it around friends, or upload it on porn sites.
Plus, she will feel more comfortable, since both of you are seen on video. Don’t you think it’s unfair for her if you refuse to show your face on camera while she’s out there spreading her legs for you?
6. Keep Your Expectations Realistic
Making your own sex tape can add spice inside the bedroom. It opens up to many possibilities in bed, plus it makes sex even more exciting. However, keep your expectations realistic.
Don’t expect your own version of porn to be as grand as an Avatar or Star Wars movie. There is no production crew here or a director who will say “Cut” at the end of the scene. It’s just the two of you and no one else.
The best part is this can be a hilarious, but memorable experience for both of you, so expect some laughs in the filming process. Have you seen the movie, Sex Tape? Expect yours to be like that – fun and something that can bring you both closer. Just stick to the plan or story line, inject your own dose of humor and enjoy the whole process. When done right, you can surely bring out your lady’s inner porn star.
7. Never Ever kiss And Tell
This is a cardinal rule in making sex videos and even when having sex in general. Come on guys, the whole world doesn’t need to know that you are having sex with your girl seven times a week, nor see you actually doing it. This is why it is important to talk about what to do with the recorded sexual act afterwards.
As depicted in the movie, Sex Tape, do you seriously want to go through that, and – knock on wood – ruin your reputation? Remember that digital is forever.
Whatever you upload online can be difficult to take down and erase forever. If it makes her feel safe, let her use her own phone or camera.
Don’t hesitate to give her the original and only copy of your sex video. Don’t be those douches that resort to revenge porn after the breakup. That is definitely a terrible idea.
Making your own sex video is not that bad. In fact, it can bring your sex life into a new and different dimension. However, you need to be careful. One mistake can ruin your lives – forever.